I was first introduced to somatic therapy (via traditional talk therapy) late in 2023 as I was attempting to plow through a traumatic episode (like a bull in a china shop) and was struggling with a pathetic lack of progress and the anxiety that went alongside of it.
At the time, I couldn't decide whether somatic therapy made good sense or was some crazy, harebrained new trend that would soon pass (with more emphasis on the latter). According to the experts and other folks who know far more than I do, somatic therapy treats mental health (particularly PTSD, anxiety, and its many cousins) by strategically focusing on and leveraging the mind-body connection. The therapy is based on the premise that stress, tension, and traumas (including the wickedly entrenched and seemingly unreachable type) are stored deep in the body somewhere and leaving them there is a fabulous recipe for poor physical and mental health over the long haul. Through proper mind-body exercises, somatic therapy is though to coax the body into releasing buried trauma. Once those traumas have resurfaced in search of their freedom, the mind can (presumably and with the right kind of help) wrestle them into a healthier tomorrow.
Sounds very logical but I was skeptical. My body wasn't exactly sending me email about where all this trauma was hidden or how it would cooperate and let go of it.
But I felt like I had hit a wall with talk therapy ... the large brick, insurmountable type. Not because I lacked an excellent therapist, but rather because my mind seemed pretty skilled at keeping what I had not yet talked about in therapy out of all present and future conversation. When my mind was hell-bent on something, it seemed to get its way no matter what kind of negotiation I entered into with it. This was in no small part courtesy of many years of education and training that brainwashed me into believing that good scientists and engineers let the mind and rational thought run the show... always.
Despite feeling skeptical and having to fight off my trained mind, I resolved to be open-minded about somatic therapy and dip a single toe in the water (one toe, not the big toe, and no more). To do this, I began taking yoga classes as my token baby step forward. I hadn't done yoga in several years ... since shortly after COVID-19 took over the world and created its own trauma. My lapse meant that I was about as limber as a piece of rebar. And while I knew from past experience that regular yoga practice would resolve the rebar issue and make me more flexible, I was not looking forward to the inevitable pain and soreness that would get me from here to there.
In the past, I had treated yoga as mere physical activity -- a means to minimize the stiffness, aches, and pains that aging was invariably pushing onto my radar screen on a regular basis. I had been warned by conservative Christians that going to yoga class was tantamount to worshiping pagan gods by diverting me to Eastern religion. Downward Dog would most certainly lead me away from proper Christian life Peaceful warrior, mountain pose, and forward fold would then advance me into Satan's den. Etc. Ugh.
When I considered whether these perils were potentially valid, reason and emotion returned me back to God's promise that He would chase me to the ends of the earth if I lost my way. So, in the unlikely event that the devil was indeed hiding in one or more of my yoga classes, I was confident that God could and would pluck me out of Satan's grasp and set me straight. In the meantime, I would drag the Holy Spirit into yoga practice with me, and invest in the practice spiritually, emotionally, and physically to see where it could take me.
As I started the second phase of yoga practice in my life, I began to pay more attention to what was going on in my mind, in my breath, and in my heart... all while I played advanced Twister with my body. I thought that meditation, if I could muster it, would calm the running commentary in my mind. If I could get past pondering how my body was not a pretzel while my instructor was busy trying to tell me so. If I could find peace in the occasional moment of limberness. If I could experience mind, heart, body, and spirit at the same time -- well, then, that would be progress.
Slowly, I was able to do something that I had never done before ... meditate. In meditation, my mind wasn't blank, but it was at least less busy and more calm. A million thoughts running around a hundred miles a minute cooled down to a handful of thoughts milling about with no particular place to go. Progress.
And slowly, guess what? I discovered that trained, experienced therapists were right. In the moments of paying attention to my breath, attending to one body part at a time, and raising my awareness of the complex machinery that makes up the human body, I started to notice weird stuff going on. I felt little pieces of pain, sometimes deep and sometimes light, breaking off from various parts of my body or breath -- and heading inward -- to my heart center.
Though not a tangible place, the heart center is still recognizable as the place where my deepest feelings hide. It is close to the physical heart but not actually the physical heart. It is oddly and simultaneously -- very nebulous and very distinct.
The little pieces of pain that broke off from various places in my body and stages of my breath to be hurtled toward my heart center at high speeds ... deserved a name. For lack of proper scientific terminology to describe them, I settled on calling them Trauma Turds. I don't know the size of the Trauma Turd army that lurks within my being. Yet, I see who they are when they escape their trenches and travel toward my heart center like asteroids barreling toward an unsuspecting planet.
As the turds crash land, they hurt, much like an acute moment of grief or a deep disappointment. They have no individual names. I don't know who they are or what they represent. But I think the whole point is that I don't really need to know what part of my life or which experience pooped them into my mind-heart-body. But I suspect that the escaped trauma turds will eventually have a voice, at least enough so for me to face them, deal with them, and give them a swift kick out of my psyche.
Wretched turds.
Despite the weirdness of it all, my one toe in the water is happy . I am still a little skeptical about my happy toe, but I am willing to dip another toe or two in similar waters and continue on in this journey. To release, accept, and face the Turds. That is the goal here.
Yoga practice isn't the whole solution, but it certainly seems to have set me onto an interesting and hopeful path forward.
And on a spiritual note, instead of leading me away from God, yoga practice has instead drawn me closer. In the silent times when meditation becomes within reach, when the gears in my mind ratchet down and allow thoughts to move more slowly, I do more of what I have historically done not nearly often enough. Pray.
But then...
Zing. There goes another one.
Stupid Turds.
Notice. Refocus. Meditate.
Pray.
Zing.
Sigh.